One of the most common myths in the tarot community is the idea that buying your own tarot deck brings bad luck. If you’ve been holding off on purchasing a deck because of this superstition, let’s clear the air once and for all – it is absolutely okay (and even beneficial) to buy your own tarot deck!
The Origins of the Myth
The belief that you must be gifted your first tarot deck likely stems from older traditions where mystical knowledge was passed down from teacher to student. In some cultures, spiritual tools were considered sacred and best received as gifts to ensure a strong, guided connection. However, in today’s world, tarot is widely accessible, and many experienced readers, professionals, and enthusiasts buy their own decks without hesitation.
Why Buying Your Own Deck Is a Good Thing
- Personal Connection – When you buy your own deck, you can choose one that truly resonates with you. The artwork, symbolism, and energy of the deck should feel inspiring, and that’s much easier to achieve when you select it yourself.
- Empowerment – Taking charge of your spiritual practice is powerful. There’s no need to wait for someone else to give you a deck when you can begin your journey whenever you feel ready.
- More Choices – There are countless tarot decks available, each with its own unique aesthetic and theme. Waiting for a gifted deck might limit you to one that doesn’t quite align with your personal style or intuitive approach.
How to Bless and Connect With Your Deck
Whether you buy your deck or receive it as a gift, the key to building a strong relationship with it is intention. Here are a few simple ways to cleanse and bond with your new deck:
- Cleanse the Energy – Use smoke cleansing (with sage, palo santo, or incense), place it under the moonlight, or knock on the deck three times to clear any lingering energy.
- Spend Time With It – Shuffle the cards, look through each one, and take note of how they make you feel.
- Sleep With It Nearby – Placing your deck under your pillow or on your nightstand can help you connect with its energy on a deeper level.
- Draw a Daily Card – Start pulling one card each morning to familiarize yourself with the imagery and messages.
Trust Your Own Path
At the end of the day, tarot is a tool for self-discovery, intuition, and guidance. There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to begin, and superstitions shouldn’t hold you back from exploring your spiritual journey. If a particular deck calls to you, trust your instincts and welcome it into your practice!
Have you ever bought your own tarot deck? Share your experience in the comments below!
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